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If you’ve ever had an amazing scene (or a deliciously intense play session)… and then a few hours later you feel flat, teary, irritable, foggy, or weirdly ashamed — you’re not broken, and you’re not “too much.” You might be meeting sub drop , top drop , and/or a plain old dopamine crash . This post is for anyone exploring ADHD and kink who wants language that’s practical, non-pathologising, and trauma-informed. Quick definitions (so we’re speaking the same language) Sub drop

Kink and BDSM spaces often feel like home for many neurodivergent folks, especially those of us with ADHD. If you’ve ever wondered why, you’re not alone. There’s a growing conversation about the overlap between neurodivergence and kink, and it’s not just a coincidence. Let’s unpack why you'll often find so many ADHDer in queer kink space