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ADHD Paralysis: Why You Can't Start (Even When You Really Want To)
Knowing what you need to do but feeling unable to start can be one of the most frustrating parts of ADHD. In this article, I explore why ADHD paralysis happens, how it's different from procrastination, and why asking "What kind of stuck is this?" can be a more compassionate place to begin.
Stella Billerey
Aug 209 min read


How to Apply for Access to Work ADHD as a Self-Employed Person
Applying for Access to Work ADHD funding as a self-employed person can feel like a faff, but, it’s worth it. I paid around £3,500 out of pocket for a virtual assistant before I made my Access to Work claim. Here’s everything you need to know about how to apply, in plain language and without the overwhelm.
Stella Billerey
Jul 235 min read


Why Access to Work ADHD Applications Get Delayed (and How to Avoid It)
Access to Work ADHD applications can take months and often get delayed at key stages. Here’s what slows the process down and how to avoid common pitfalls.
Stella Billerey
Jul 163 min read


Can Access to Work ADHD Fund a Virtual Assistant?
Access to Work ADHD funding can be used to pay for a virtual assistant or support worker. Here’s how it works in practice, including what my VA does in my ADHD coaching business and how this support is funded.
Stella Billerey
Jul 73 min read


Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and ADHD: Why Rejection Hits Differently When You're Neurodivergent
You already know what rejection sensitive dysphoria is. But why does rejection hit so differently when you have ADHD? This post explores the neuroscience behind RSD, how it shows up in daily life, and what you can actually do to manage it — without toxic positivity or quick fixes.
Stella Billerey
Jun 296 min read


Access to Work ADHD: Self-Employed Funding — My £15,931 Story
I received £15,931.59 in Access to Work funding as a self-employed ADHDer. Here's the full story — the application, the mistakes, the tax return chaos, and everything I wish someone had told me before I started.
Stella Billerey
Jun 75 min read
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