top of page
Blog Posts


ADHD and Productivity
Discover how ADHD medication transformed my productivity, career, and self-care as a queer ADHD coach in London. This blog explores the balance between medicated focus, capitalist expectations, and creating space for fulfilment and rest—offering affirming insights for neurodivergent adults.
Stella Billerey
Mar 83 min read


ADHD Money Management: Practical Tools & Self-Compassion for Neurodivergent Brains
Affirming ADHD coaching for sex workers. I understand neurodivergence, queerness, kink & disability. Book a free discovery call with a sex work friendly coach
Stella Billerey
Feb 134 min read


Sex Work Friendly ADHD Coach: Affirming Support for Neurodivergent Sex Workers
Affirming ADHD coaching for sex workers. I understand neurodivergence, queerness, kink & disability. Book a free discovery call with a sex work friendly coach
Stella Billerey
Feb 34 min read


ADHD and Kink: Sub Drop, Top Drop & the Dopamine Crash
If you’ve ever had an amazing scene (or a deliciously intense play session)… and then a few hours later you feel flat, teary, irritable, foggy, or weirdly ashamed — you’re not broken, and you’re not “too much.” You might be meeting sub drop , top drop , and/or a plain old dopamine crash . This post is for anyone exploring ADHD and kink who wants language that’s practical, non-pathologising, and trauma-informed. Quick definitions (so we’re speaking the same language) Sub drop
Stella Billerey
Jan 186 min read
bottom of page
